Get Talking

Everyday moments are full of opportunities to connect with your tamariki.

Our kids crave connection more than anything else – conversation, play and presence are all you need.

Get started with these practical ideas, guidance and real-life inspiration you can use in your own way.

Where to start?

There’s no right order, just choose what feels right for your whānau today.

Each area offers simple ways to help you bring in more conversation and connection into everyday life.

Look, listen, and join in

Communication starts with connection. Before words come understanding.

Talk every day about everyday things

Everyday routines like tidying the house, getting ready for school or making dinner are full of natural opportunities to talk together.

Routines to try

Join the play, grow the talk

Play is where imagination and language come alive. Learn how joining in and following your child’s lead helps grow communication naturally.

Words on the page become lifelong language skills

Stories help build vocabulary, connection, and curiosity. Discover simple ways to make reading together part of everyday life.

Start reading together

No screens – the best app is you

Practical, realistic ways to create more space for conversation, play, and presence – without pressure or judgement.

Try screen-free swaps

See what they see, say what they do

Outside is full of things to notice, wonder about, and talk through together.

Head outdoors together